Marry Wisely, Marry Well

Author Ernie Baker explains that the one-flesh intimacy which occurs in marriage can’t be found anywhere else.

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Comments

  • Bob Mendez

    I have to disagree again with this show. Here the author of the book is saying that there is a ‘right one’ for your mate. That kind of thought process leads to lots of Christians divorcing to try to find the right one. There’s no such thing as the right mate. You could marry several people and they will fit with you it is a mindset of commitment versus finding the right person. We have to work on our marriage. It is hard to be married to anyone. Obviously it’s wise to marry someone who loves the Lord with all their heart. But even that person is going to be a challenge. I would have loved this interview to talk about making a commitment to the choice of your mate. Searching for the ‘right one’ could end up in a life-long search filled with disappointments and divorce!

  • Katie

    I so appreciated the broadcasts by Ernie Baker! My husband is a youth pastor and I will definitely be passing this on to him as a resource for the college students he counsels. So glad you had him on the show!

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