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Stop Competing and Start Respecting
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Today's Highlight
The Respect Dare
Roesner explains that when a woman speaks a man’s language of respect, he will reciprocate in kind.
Stop Competing and Start Respecting
Air Date: September 5, 2017From the series: The Respect Dare
Do you speak your man’s love language? Nina Roesner, author of “The Respect Dare,” says that if you’re not respecting your husband, then you probably aren’t. Roesner explains that when a woman speaks a man’s language of respect, he will reciprocate in kind with the love she craves. Roesner says she learned this lesson the hard way, by failing to communicate respect to her husband and focusing instead on what he could do for her, and not on how she could love and serve him. But when God showed her the error of her ways, she saw her marriage improve by leaps and bounds.
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